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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please be there for your friend. She has lost her job, her son, her support. She is stuck in the house with a bad husband, a perverted son and a lot of shame. She didn’t do it and I doubt she knew about it. I actually suspect - based on your description of the change in this young man - that he is probably mentally I’ll and that’s why the parents had let him live with them. There are a lot of mental illnesses that show up in young adulthood. Of course, that doesn’t excuse the CP, but it may help explain why they were supporting him. [/quote]

+1,000,000

I understand, OP, why you have issues with the fact that your friend bailed out her son--I would as well--but as long as she didn't attempt to persuade me of his innocence in the face of overwhelming evidence, I'd do what good friends do and support her in ways that didn't jeopardize my own career. That said, the fact that you think you could put your own career at risk just by being a good friend says nothing good about the community in which you live, and I'd be thinking about retiring elsewhere and finding a better community.[/quote]

+2. You should know your 40+ year best friend wouldn’t have condoned this if she knew about it. At the very least, you should be there to talk and text with her through this terrible time.  [/quote]

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