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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand the hate.

I divorced at 42 after ex blew up the entire family. My 3 teenage kids and I were completely blindsided. I had always been faithful and had always pictured myself being with my ex till the day I die.

I really thought my life was over and had a mental picture of myself alone sitting in a rocking chair with cats around me, because it was what it seemed like what happened with divorced women in the 40s and 50s. I felt like a used dirty kitchen rag. After years of mental abuse and lack of intimacy, I didn't even see myself slightly attractive, forget about feeling sexy at all. I was useless and pointless after breeding 3 awesome children, or that was what the society made me feel.

When I finally started healing and forcing myself to get out there, I was pleasantly surprised by the quality of men I went on dates with. My priority, for now, is my 3 children, as they are the biggest victims in this traumatic divorce, and the man I've been dating for the last 1.5 years understands and respects me for that. I have no desire to blend family and make my life any more complicated.

I don't understand the hate for women in our situation, mocking us like we're just old women with baggage.

I mean, there are "loser" men at any age, right? Or men who just want to have sex?

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You sound normal. This woman posting isn't you. [b]She's just going around like the men getting laid[/b] and then boasting about it as if it's a plus to her and her men and we should all respect them for their ability to find an F buddy.[/quote]

You say that like it's a bad thing. [/quote]

What's good about it for society and for themselves and their partners? Especially when they are seeing married people and lying about their wishes? To me it's a bad thing. For both women and men. It's called slutty behavior.[/quote]

That might work on a 15 year old insecure school girl, but I quite enjoy being slutty.  You should try it sometime. It's very freeing. [/quote]

No thanks. Already have heard the horror stories and sicknesses from it. Enjoy. Above there was a comment about someone seeing a person who was in an unahappy marriage, so there was a reference to being an affair partner.

Either way, I don't see what the huge boast is about starting this page. [b]You are basically a free prostitute.[/b] Whatever. Enjoy your life. I don't look up to you as a woman.[/quote]

You have some serious issues, lady.

I don't care if you chose to sleep with one person for the rest of your life or choose to be celibate. More power to you. Do what makes you happy.  But you're the only one calling people names for doing what makes them happy and hurts absolutely no one. You should really think about why what I'm doing is bothering you so much. [/quote]

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