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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No. I have a lot of sympathy for divorced or single adults. My heart bleeds for kids with divorced parents.[/quote]

My parents never divorced but fought all the time. Hardcore Catholics who ran to marital retreats. They’re still dysfunctional 40 years later. My dad has no sense of self and my mom calls all the shots. I don’t hope to be like them. I think each would have become a better person without the other. They just validate each other’s bad behavior snd realkg come together as one when they berate me. That’s the most harmony I see between them.

So no, I would not be so fast to pity divorces people nor children of divorce. It’s often worse when you watch a dysfunctional marriage play out for the sake of religion and saving face. [/quote]

+1.

The thing to keep in mind is half of all pregnancies are unplanned. So often it’s two people that shouldn’t really be together, but gave it a shot in hopes of giving their child an intact home. Then it turns into a toxic situation.

Sure, you can list off all the “shoulds”. They should have used better birth control, should have just gotten over their issues, whatever. But that’s not the reality. And for many of these kids, two peaceful homes is better than one chaotic home. [/quote]

Don't marry someone you wouldn't want to have an unplanned pregnancy with. [/quote]

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