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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Her *family* may need this vacation. Really need it.
It isn't -only- about your parents
Their life is not only about your parents[/quote]
This! For 3 months she has been a mother, wife, daughter, caregiver, employee. She’s grieving, scared, exhausted. She’s been pulled in lots of directions until she’s stretched very thin. This is when her kids are out of school and she and her husband arranged to take vacation. They can’t just do this any old week of the year. Her kids have probably gotten much less of her attention these last 3 months. I seriously doubt she and her husband have been having date nights. This is their opportunity to reconnect, escape the daily grind of these past 3 months, and just be there for each other during this difficult time.

I was with my father for the last 40 days of his life. You can’t know what that’s like without going through it. He aged a decade in his last week. It was horrific to witness. My mother, brother and I were traumatized by mental images of him on his deathbed.  Pack up your baby and get yourself there. Help your mom with the funeral arrangements. That’s the easy part.[/quote]
I agree.  Sister and her family have been bearing the brunt of this for months.  OP hasn't, but feels it's her place to judge.  [/quote]

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