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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So mom tells kids dad cheated which is why we divorced. Dad tells kids he cheated because mom refused to have sex with him. Mom says they stopped having sex because dad wasn't capable with chores so it made her resent him.

Most of DCUM thinks this is acceptable discourse for kids[/quote]

Dad cheated because mom refused to have sex with him.

So the only solution is to cheat? How about dad working on improving the marriage?[/quote]

Why didn’t dad get a divorce first? He could have told his wife their lack of sex was unacceptable, and he would be filling for divorce.

I stopped having sex with my spouse because he was cheating. His answer was to cheat more, with random men and women (thus exposing me to stis and stds from random strangers who find anonymous sex partners online‼️)

Then blame me because I “wouldn’t have sex with him.”

If any of you find messages on your husband’s open email he’s meeting other men for anal sex in secret and you get incredibly turned on, go for it. Just know MSM (men who have sex with men) have incredibly high hiv and aids rates.

He’s still running around telling anyone who will listen I stopped having sex with him. [/quote]

Ugh. Awful.  And a lot of women get turned off when they’re husband has been a critical emotionally abusive a-hole.  So which came first- his behavior or the growing coldness from that behavior?  They will charm outside the home while being complete d@ck heads to their spouses.[/quote]

He was and still is a nice guy to people outside of his family. He likes to be admired and thought of as a great guy. Total jerk who cheated on me while I was pregnant with our first child, because I couldn’t have the kind of sex he desired while I was heavily pregnant. He tried to have sex with me 2 weeks postpartum and I tried but had to stop him because of the physical pain. And he is so mad I didn’t have sex with him after my colon cancer diagnosis and ensuing 6 months of brutal chemo. He continues to play the victim at every turn and we are completely divorced.

I think a lot of older men tell people that their wife denied them sex because their married sex life bored them, and they needed something to justify their cheating behavior. They want a new partner, or several new partners, and good old mom gets thrown under the bus because she’s no longer a sex bunny. [/quote]

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