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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are you kids? My elementary age kids are up at 6:30-7am, especially with the light streaming in the crappy curtains at most beach rentals.

My kids get up and eat a quick bite and then go down to the beach to fly kites while my in-laws watch them. Then they all come back and we have the “proper” breakfast which is more like brunch. 
We plan activities every other day - nature center, cape May zoo, mini golf, etc. That gets us out for the day. We typically spend the most time one the beach in the later afternoon - and MIL gets to do her cooler thing for snacks and cocktail hour. 
There is still the expectation that we all sit around and chat for hours every night - but I have worked my way out of that. When I was pregnant, I “needed rest” and then I was “putting down the baby” or “staying close in case  the toddler wakes up scared in a strange place”. Now I’ve trained them them I will always go to bed early.

We have a similar vacation vibe with a similar group, we’ve just managed to shift the timeline. We do still have to eat lasagna my MIL makes ahead and freezes and brings in a cooler. Some things we can’t change. 
I bring homemade muffins and breads. I also make French toast casserole or strata the night before and pop it in the oven for the “real breakfast” after the early beach goers return. Assembling the breakfast recipe with my MIL “helping” is what I swap for light night wine drinking. [/quote]

What makes you think op should do what you do? Are you implying they are in the wrong because they aren't early risers? You're going to be this mil.[/quote]

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