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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do not judge at all. If I had the money, I would hire all the help in the world. It's ridiculous to think that we shouldn't. Suffering does not equate to better parenting. I paid a ton of money for a FT nanny when kids were little as a WFH mom. If I could've paid for FT plus cleaning, cooking, PA, I'd have done it. [b]Also, the women being paid for their services also appreciate the payments. So the idea that we should not outsource is nonsense.[/b] [/quote] This is true. My husband and I are physicians and lived in a blue collar town after residency. I hired help because I wanted help, and I appreciated it. I’m not going to pretend it was altruism or anything, but I really did like the idea that the money that we were making was staying in the community and benefitting our neighbors.[/quote]
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