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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dr Ramani on YouTube.

Also, you need more therapy. You need to gray rock and ghost completely. [/quote]

Therapy costs time and money, both of which I have invested heavily with good improvement. I want to stand on my own and not replace my non existent nurturing parents with a therapist who is paid to help me. I've had enough therapy. I am in a rough patch, which will pass. If you knew the details of my young life, you'd be amazed that I'm still alive and that I'm a nice, loving person. I have a right to feel angry over what I went through and I understand I won't always feel it as acutely as I did yesterday when I wrote the op. I am thankful to everyone who posted.[/quote]

I’m glad you’ve come a long way. Please understand that you are not alone or unique in having a horrific childhood, and that people posting here have quite possibly been in your shoes. I’m not about to get into some kind of suffering competition with you.

You don’t need lifelong therapy, you just need the right therapy, and the right tools. As has been stated here, you can therapy all day, every day and not get the results you want and need. That’s why PP said you need more therapy. The choice to hold on to this because you “have the right to” is the kind of thinking that therapy might help you with. You don’t live there anymore. You deserve to not look back. 
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