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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't judge those with help, but I do get annoyed when mothers with lots of outside help give advice, recommendations, or pass judgment on those of us who don't. [/quote]

Exactly!  I was livid when a mom from a family where a grandma watches the kids full time [b]told me that she could never leave her kids with a stranger.[/b]

I told her that I could never make my mom an unpaid slave and force her to forgo earning social security.  The stunned look was priceless to watch.[/quote]

Sorry you feel judged, but I actually agree with this sentiment. My mother (who took early retirement well before I had children) stayed with us during our first 6 months of nanny care until the nanny became like family and I trusted her completely. I would not have wanted to leave DB alone with a stranger. Daycare even worse option.[/quote]

I judge you for your judgy response. So many people don’t have the options you have! And my daycare never lent my car their drug addicted son who left pot in the backseat of said car but the “like family”nanny of 2 years for a friend did….[/quote]

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