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[quote=Anonymous]	Why did it take you both 2 months to finally have a date? My husband asked if you were putting him off. Were you? Or, was he “busy”? 
Either way, meet or don’t, but whatever you do, don’t wait 2 months. 
Also, be careful of people who “go out of town” a lot, I’ve never really accepted that as a reasonable, I mean, if you’re single and you don’t like it here, wherever here is, you have the freedom to go and live anyplace. I don’t understand why a person would date and then not be around to actually well go on a date.  I haven’t even gotten into the married guys, the players, the guys who are into things they don’t want me to know about who also use “going out of town” as an excuse to not do the very activity they claim they want to do. Nobody makes anybody look for a date, you aren’t food, don’t allow yourself to be treated like it. Of course people are allowed to do what they want and don’t owe me anything, at the same time though, I don’t have to just accept what they are telling me and take it at face value. I’m not obligated to wait for someone to get back to me whenever they see fit and expect they’ll get what they want.  I’m a human, not a product they can just order.   
Your situation, op, is why  I don’t give men the benifit of the doubt, if someone wants to see me, they will and they will do it sooner and keep doing it on the regular if they like me. go out of town or be busy all you want, just don’t expect me to be available when you do finally decide you’d like to see me.  
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