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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have had this debate before. It's a cultural thing. WASPy people think you should skimp on food out of some bizarre sense of moral superiority of austerity, people from non-WASP cultures are horrified at lettings guests (and yes parents are gueats) be hungry. [/quote] This is the answer. OP, we are Jewish and we feed people just as Italians do. My Indian friends are also lovely when it comes to making sure guests are fed. I don’t necessarily think the hosts were being cheap. I think people have a different sense of what is appropriate, as evidenced on this thread. I think a non drop off party at dinner time absolutely should have had food for parents available. I also think there is a weird dynamic in this area where moms don’t eat the pizza or cake or pretend they don’t eat at all. When we went to kid bday parties in NYC, not only did the parents eat, but both parents came to all parties and hosts served good wine. This area is just not that way. [/quote] I would eat at a kids’ party if the food was good, fresh, and not garbage processed stuff. But you are right, I absolutely won’t touch indoor bounce land pizza. [/quote]
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