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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, maybe you need to find a job that has an office you can go to, at least a few days a week. Those will be the days you actually work and you'll just do your best when you're WAH.

I agree that your DH isn't being respectful, but you can't change him. You can only change yourself or your response.

My library has rooms that people can reserve. Maybe you could try that?[/quote]

Agree that OP and the DH need to find some new options, and reserving private space somewhere like a library could work--good idea. It's not a solution for every single working day, because no library's going to let her have a room five days a week, but it could be a good half-day option at times. For her or for him. He could be the one to decamp elsewhere at times too, maybe when she's WFH he's out and when he's WFH she's out, etc. At least some of the time.

But "maybe you need to change jobs" is a very major change and about much more than just finding some job with an office to go to. Not sure why OP should have to make such a gigantic change, maybe affecting her career path and income level, to accommodate her husband's disrespectful treatment of her and their mutual space. [/quote]

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