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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Adult children. I have a demanding career. I’m sorry if I could not be there 100 percent. [/quote] This is pretty flippant for not supporting your spouse during a life threatening disease. You should stop worrying about the life insurance and realize he's getting his ducks in a row to leave you. If I got cancer after our kids were out of the house and my DH's response to asking why he didn't fully support me was "ohhhh, sorry, I was busy at work, what did you expect from me?" [b]I'd 100% bounce after I recovered.[/b] No point living out the rest of your life with someone who can't step up when needed. You're shocked that you're off the policy? He's shocked that you're a selfish and bad person.[/quote] So you’d let your spouse financially support you through your illness and then leave them because they didn’t do as much as you wanted emotionally. If OP is the breadwinner she could have restricted access to money and it doesn’t sound like that happened, and even with good insurance co-payments for cancer treatments aren’t nothing. She also could have chosen to divorce *him* as many men do their partners when they get cancer. [/quote] If you can’t rely on your partner for much when you’re sick and ill with something situational- not life long- why stay married at all. Damage is done. [/quote]
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