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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a person who cleans as I go. If I eat something, I will put my plate in the dishwasher once I am done. I do my laundry every day.  I wipe my sink and bathroom counters after I use them in the morning.  I will swish the toilet with lysol cleaner in the morning. To keep a clean house clean takes a few minutes every day.  Another things is that I know how to declutter.

If your girlfriend is spreading her cosmetics or hair styling products in the bathroom counter, she basically needs tote baskets to keep her stuff neatly and a place to stow it away.

I am sure there are many qualities that she has that makes it worthwhile for you to have her in your life.  If you cannot stand her messy habits then understand that it will only get worse.

Maybe she can work part time as a maid with a cleaning service and learn on the job?[/quote]

OP here. I don’t do all of the above but this is basically what I do. I try to keep things neat.

I specifically cleaned out space - we have a double sink with lots of cabinet space for her to keep her stuff. I bought some bins and she still never uses them. She said [b]it’s easier to have everything out and displayed[/b]. I got her some nice looking makeup thing to keep on the counter and it’s still a freaking mess.

She works FT and will not take on a cleaning job. She’s not a slob or anything. I have never lived with a woman and I just assumed most women were just as clean, if not cleaner, than I am. [/quote]

This highlighted above calls for organizing solutions which allow her to see everything and yet keep it organized. There are bathroom shelves you can buy, closet shoe racks (I installed it for my elderly mother and her closet now looks way more organized) etc[/quote]

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