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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I think your being a neat person sets you up for success in life - professional and personal.  Your girlfriend may not have been raised by parents who valued routine and cleanliness.  I would gently talk to her and teach her how to be neat.  Compromise on some things but you need to actually show her how to fold clothes etc and how to clean. Many people grow up not knowing basic "adulting".  Then there are long threads on this forum about how their spouse is not helping at home.

I suggest that you watch "Hoarders" and "AuriKatrinna" together on youtube.  You can also watch Mari Kondo on Netflix.  Then you both need to do these kinds of cleaning chores together every day so that this habit becomes ingrained in her.  It takes 21 days of doing something every day to form a habit.

Tell her that you are also willing to learn things from her. Maybe she is great in cooking or loves to garden.  The best part about spending time with each other is that you can teach each other, compromise with each other or figure out if you are compatible or not.

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