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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I was ugly and married to a hot guy I’d probably get a little rude too. People like OP are so harsh about a woman’s attractiveness and I’m sure she knows she is constantly judged for it. I’d probably save the food parts of my personality for people who were clearly respectful to me. [/quote]

Nowhere did OP mention that she was rude or disrespectful to the ugly wife. Some people can just be curious how the dynamics of a hot man and ugly woman come about without being rude to the wife. You know, like I’m still kind and respectful to people who hold differing political views even though I find their opinions on some issues really odd.

You need to stop projecting onto OP. [/quote]

The very characterization of this issue--"how could a hot man be with an ugly woman???"--is rude and disrespectful, right? I personally think it's rude to call somebody else ugly. It's definitely not something yo'd say to her face or her husband's face, and there is a reason for that. I didn't actually say OP was rude to this woman but she sure is being rude here, and unless she is an excellent actress and perfectly hiding the fact that she can't understand why this woman got such a catch, she probably was a little rude to her.

And look at this thread. People think this guy married this woman to hide his sexuality or because her family has money, or that she became ugly over time. That's really mean! And this woman cannot be ignorant about the way people pass judgment about her. She must know that people talk about her behind her back, and I am sure some people express nonverbal surprise directly to her that *she* is with *him*. And I bet people have been openly disdainful about it. So yeah I'd definitely have a chip on my shoulder if I was in her shoes.

And I do just think the OP betrays a little jealousy. [/quote]

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