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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Prepare to go back to work. If you get spousal support, it will likely be temporary and you will both have a lower standard of living if you do not go back to work. The norm is 50/50 custody and 50/50 of assets split during the marriage as well as debt. [b]Many men do nothing with kids until a divorce. Prepare for that.[/b] You don't have a lot of assets. That means you do not have money to have a costly legal battle fighting for little money you have. Be practical about the financial aspect. There are formulas for child support. Ask the attorney what is reasonable to expect financially in your situation. That is the most important thing to ask.[/quote] Then what do they do? Suddenly have real conversations with the kids, read the school emails, teach and coach them? Or just Disney dad it and throw money. [/quote] Where they are helpless before...they suddenly start doing everything they were incapable of before. This has happened to me and 3 other friends. Literally did not one thing before...suddenly they are capable. They choose not to be capable in marriage. They want 50/50 so they pay less or nothing...and suddenly they figure stuff out. [/quote] Men don't need to figure "stuff" out and were always capable in marriage. Once they get away from their insufferable wife they can catch their breath and parent without bickering and negotiating over every detail of how to raise a child. [/quote]
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