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[quote=Anonymous]These scenarios don't account for the different needs of families when kids are under 5 versus elementary versus MS/HS. Many families move between these options and some options are better for certain ages. I wanted to SAHM when kids were very young but would feel uncomfortable doing it when kids are in upper elementary because I'd get bored and crave space for myself by then. By HS families need to be thinking about what their plan is when kids leave.

Also, none of these scenarios offer what is often the dream scenario for a lot of working parents, which is PT or occasional work. Maybe that's supposed to be baked into "flexible job" but I am assuming FT work still. Families generally need at least one FT parent for financial stability and healthcare. But being able to work PT, or not work summers, or do consulting work that allows you to pick it up when you want and take time off when you want, can be magical with kids. It allows that parent to have a work life while enabling the kind of flexibility that you can't get even with a remote, undemanding full time job.

So I'll add:

E. One parent with flexible FT job, one parent with PT work or self-employment, enough money to hire help when needed, splitting household duties 50/50 but childcare more like 70/30 to accommodate the fact that one parent wants to work a bit more and the other parent wants to spend more time with kids.

That's where we are at and it's perfect.[/quote]

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