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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I get that it feels insensitive to you. But the fact is they went to your mother's funeral. Very few in-laws go at all, and how many times have posters come on to say their IL family is insensitive to not going. [b]This feels a little like a no-win for IL family. [/b]Maybe think of it in terms of they were nice enough to attend. [/quote] What? In what sense is it anywhere near a non win? I’m sure the OP abd her husband appreciated their attendance and told them so. That counts as “winning” as you phrase it. Taking a family photo at the funeral is flat out insensitive to the point where it pretty much nullifies the original kind gesture. I cannot believe this has to be explained to you. [/quote] Seriously! It's like saying someone was "nice enough" to attend your wedding, so you should also ignore the fact that they puked on the dance floor. How dare you mention it! It will nullify their kindness! [/quote]
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