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[quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry, OP. You’ve gotten some good advice here. I will also add that I have been the person whose husband cheated and what I really needed was less advice and fewer opinions. And no questions. People had so many questions. I needed time to figure out what I wanted and what happened and how we got there and how I didn’t see it and who I even was. Honestly, everyone was so unhelpful, even though they thought they were supporting me. It also took me a while to stop loving him. I knew what he did and I was gutted and hurt but I still loved him. My friends and family, on the other hand, were just furious. It didn’t help that I needed to deal with their emotions too and also try to explain how I felt and then wonder if I was crazy. So TLDR — say less. Mostly just listen and tell her how much you love her and show up.[/quote]
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