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[quote=Anonymous]OP here with an update. Thanks so much to those who responded, I looked back on the thread a few times in the last few months and appreciated the encouragement. After my original post my lawyer pursued things further. My ex did indeed get quite angry and unfortunately said things about it to the kids which I really hoped to avoid. That has been the most negative outcome. For a month or so he argued back and forth with my lawyer and said some ugly things but who cares. I am not sure if ex DH consulted his own lawyer or someone else but he fortunately figured out that the settlement I/my lawyer offered was very reasonable and agreed. The paperwork is in the process of being signed now.

1000000% to the posters who said custody and risk of parental kidnapping (however minute) is the real concern here! May not have been clear in the OP, but I started the process because when he insisted on visiting and demonstrated he wouldnt respect any boundaries it was clear I needed to ensure I had legal protection re:custody. Before, I was letting the CS go (foolishly?) because I didn't want to trigger anything. But once I engaged thr lawyer, the CS was literally the only thing he fought back on.

Most of the responses on this thread were thoughtful and I really appreciate it! [/quote]

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