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[quote=Anonymous]OP, in financial terms he should give you a "package" of around $3.1-4mm for moving in with him. This is just an equivalent of what you loose in your income NPV over the next 10-15 years, without counting for reinvestments. Of course OP has a choice, but she can easily calculate how much should be in her retirement fund to have N amount of money until age 87 (life expectancy for her). Maybe it's a good idea to consult with a retirement actuary in your case. Also, I know one lady who married a guy 10 years older and they divorced in their 60s. He turned out an impossible control freak and a nag. As she was younger and still working, she owes him alimony for life of $5K/month ,and no longer can retire herself at the same comfort level. If your boyfriend loves you, why he won't move in with you in DC? He's free in how to spend his time. But for you it's a loss of security[/quote]
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