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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP 22:46 again. Have you tried talking to the other mom, sans any kids or husbands, and just asking what her thoughts are? If they are this jumpy then maybe there is some internal conflict; for example, her husband is 100% for her daughter having the baby and she is on the fence so just keeps her mouth shut. There could be any sort of dynamics here but I'm sorry, it's a woman's choice for a reason; only we know what it's like and have to go through pregnancy, birth, most of the infant care, etc. Your son is a deer in headlights and that is a big sign that these kids are not ready to be parents. I really agree with PP that someone needs to advocate for this girl.[/quote] I think above PP has a good idea and that both mothers will have a better chance of having a discussion and coming to a decision in how to help both of them. I fear, however, that you son will be blamed even though the sex was consenual. I also think that her parents are going to be adamant about their daughter not seeing your son again for a long time. My cousin's son fathered a child and the girl had the baby but her parents refuse to let him or his parents see the child. Because she is underage, I would also consult an attorney because they could claim statutory rape. It isn't hard for a girl this young to give into her parents demands, no matter the truth. Please let us know what happens and I wish all of you the best.[/quote]
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