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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your niece sounds very difficult and your sister is doing her a huge disservice. It sounds like a perfect storm of an inherently challenging personality and terrible parenting. I know other free-range kids and, while they can have their moments, they are nothing like what you describe. Most kids, no matter how they are being raised, are somewhat eager to please. Most kids are better at reading situations and other people's reactions. Most kids are not so hot tempered as to explode over being stepped on by a much smaller kid.

Ultimately the one who is going to suffer the most is your niece. She is going to have a terrible time at school if she doesn't already. Nobody is going to like her. I feel sorry for her.

OP, if you can find a way to include her in ways that aren't so frustrating (maybe just at home on short visits?) I strongly recommend trying to find a way to be compassionate. This child is not going to have an easy time.[/quote]

OP here,
My sister is working this weekend and I have invited my niece and her dad for Easter Lunch.  I know she is only seven years old but she needs to listen and follow directions, her father is a hand  on dad, will step in and displain if needed.I spoke to my niece last night and she was actually pleasant and kind. I want only the best outcome for her. 
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OP, that’s good news. Please do not cut your niece off. You and your kids modeling appropriate behavior when she is with you may be what she needs as it is lacking at home.  And do have a heart to heart with your sister. Sister can parent as she pleases but her child cursing out other people is a bridge too far…for most. [/quote]

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