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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, You didn't mention the bad association in your original post. That's important. Can't you tell DH and your MIL about that? Otherwise, I'm sorry, but [b]you sound petulant. It is your husband's baby too[/b].[/quote] That’s a stupid argument especially considering that the baby will already have the dads (and FIL’s) surname. Either parent has veto power over a name they hate, that has really bad associations for them. My rapist’s name was Benjamin Kyle (first and middle) and i would never ever use either of those names, even if it was a strong family connection. I also would never use the names Carl or Alan also for very bad associations I have w people by those names. OP has a right to not use a name that has bad associations for her and her DH should be understanding of that (and he should also be the one to communicate that to MIL)[/quote] +1. It’s far from petulant for one parent to veto a name. [/quote]
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