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Reply to "If you lost weight for your spouse, did it help your marriage?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your post makes me sad. I would be hurt and resentful if I were you also. I suggest marriage counseling because it seems like you are feeling like your commitment to each other is not balanced. Good luck.[/quote] OP here. This is true. I’m not even sure what the end goal of counseling would be. Do I want to be less committed to my marriage and family? Do I want him to be more committed? Will the weight loss help with that? I’m afraid that if I don’t lose the weight, then he will see me as not only fat, but also weak and unmotivated. [/quote] Unbalanced is a good word. What do you want, and he is going to put in the work (and intellectual and emotional labor) to elevate your life situation? This is really hard, painful stuff. He probably knows that. Is this an excuse to end the marriage, and he will just find another excuse once you have done this? Or is he willing to help out your happiness in exchange?[/quote]
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