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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did your last relationship end?[/quote]

OP here. He is also 30 and wasn’t ready to settle down. He wanted to settle down eventually but he didn’t see himself having kids for at least another 5 years. He was fine with marriage but wanted to put off kids until 35+. I want to hopefully have 1-2 kids or be pregnant by 35. [/quote]

It would take you roughly one year to find such guy then roughly one year to make sure if he is suitable. You are not likely to want to have kids in first year of marriage so this strategy only makes a difference of 2 years. You should’ve married the guy you loved and trusted and waited a bit longer for kids.[/quote]

You don't leave someone you love because you don't want kids at the exact same moment in life!!  I think you need to go back to the basics, OP.[/quote]

When you're in your 30s and the guy wants to put off kids for *at least* 5 years - actually, yea, you do leave them. If he needs 5 more years he likely doesn't even want kids. Last thing OP should do is gamble her fertility on him, only to find out at 35 he doesn't want kids after all and now she's screwed.

If he could compromise on 2 years - sure, give it a shot. But if he won't budge on the timeline, OP did the right thing in leaving. [/quote]

It doesn't sound like they even bothered to have a discussion about compromise it was all My WAY.

So instead of having a man who loved her and she loved, who wanted to get married and have children. She now is single and in need of finding a man to live her her wants to get married who has what she's looking for and wants to have kids  right away to meet ops deadline of by 35.[/quote]

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