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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I dated a man last year for like 6 weeks, had sex, and then he lost interest and wanted casual after previously initiating monogamy. I’m now dating again.and wondering what are signs a man will end up losing interest after sex one time?[/quote]

Sorry, OP. I am sure I'm going to be flamed for this but it's the truth. I am a guy dating so take it with a grain of salt. All the posts about waiting for 3 months are BS. You do you. Based on my opinion and experience, you're not building anticipation or desire by waiting. For me, a relationship has to have both the mental and physical connection to be in sync to pursue further. If the physical connection is not there, it's just not going to work out. You don't want to wait for 3 months and be mentally attracted and then get behind closed doors and find out that the guy is a dud (or from a guy's perspective, you are a dud). Also, I've learned the hard way, that the longer a woman takes to get physical, there are major insecurities that she's dealing with, and/or, just enjoys the free meal because some guys will keep going back to get something that is not available to them.

Wasted time.

As a guy, a woman who is just as interested in a relationship as she is in sex versus a woman who is going to "wait" for some dumb timeline for sex, separates herself from the pack. We will always go for the sexually confident woman. And twice on Sunday. Those who will turn it on when they decide that this is the guy she wants to be with, good for them. If I'm interested in someone, I want to know if we're sexually compatible. Because I don't want to waste my time and money courting someone who is not going to be fun behind closed doors. And when we find someone who is fun, we go back and back for more. We don't ditch them to start the chase all over again.

Maybe (and this is harsh), you're not good at sex. There are no signs that a man will lose interest after sex. On the contrary, speaking for myself, I'm more interested in someone if the sex was good. If you're into it, men will know. If you're doing it just because you have to, we will know as well, and we will not be coming back for more.

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And how would women know that you are not just going around "trying" as many girls as possible? Honestly, sex is a no brainer, I am a woman and had O with all my partners with penetration and never just lay down. It of course varies how they like my tongue go around their penis, or what to touch during, but after couple times with same partner it's easy to learn.

Many people are compatible with each other if you just take sex alone, I would say 80% of opposite side persons I found visually attractive.

I am a woman and it's  enough for me to kiss with a guy to see if his kiss and touch makes me wet wanting him and to see if kissing me is getting him hard. If it doesn't, I just don't move to next stage - PIV.

What is wrong with you men that you need to go to PIV to see if the woman is right for you???[/quote]

Exactly the same way that guys don't know you're out "trying" as many men to find the right one.

You're out kissing a bunch of guys to see if it gets you going. I think that's perfect.

Theoretically, using your words, there is 80% compatibility and a great make-out session. Things move behind closed doors and then you find out that he is either not big enough or not what you're attracted to, where does that leave things then? Yeah. The same way guys think. Per the OP, she's wondering if there are signs that someone will ditch you after sex....chances are women are doing it as well because someone does not measure up or doesn't have stamina, or cant ring the bell. [/quote]

This response above is from someone who measures women from standpoint of sex solely. Like horses: "stamina", "wont measure up' etc.

I would never believe someone with such attitude is a good attentive lover who truly knows women. I would rather sleep with someone whose penis is not as hard or as big but who is really caring about me, than with such a "macho"

That being said, all men with big penises were terrible in bed - way too technical, all about their satisfaction, speed, endurance - anything but my satisfaction[/quote]

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