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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are any men actually answering?[/quote] +1 All you get are women declaring that men really want intellectually challenging, high-powered careerist, “boss-babe” types. I’m a woman and I actually believe men when they say they just want someone fun, kind, attractive, and DTF. Class and education certainly factor in, but not nearly to the degree it does for women when considering men for the same thing. [/quote] Lots of women, believe it or not, go for men who are blue collar or even *gasp* unemployed. And same goes for men. I’m not saying that men or women want more from their partner, just that men really aren’t as low-maintenance and easy to please as they like to think they are. And when I say they want women to be an equal partner, I don’t mean equal earner, equal in ambition, or equal in social class. I mean an equal contributor in the quality of his life, whatever that may mean. And there is more to quality of life than regular sex and conversation with an attractive person. Men don’t want somebody who is going to make their lives more difficult. They don’t want somebody who is so bad with finances they will get into consumer debt, who create conflict with friends and in-laws (you can do that even if you’re generally kind and fun), who demand their husbands keep the house as clean as they do, etc. And often they don’t want somebody who spends lots of time on makeup and hair, who is way, way dumber than they are, who has obnoxious friends, etc. [/quote]
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