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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are any men actually answering?[/quote]

All you get are women declaring that men really want intellectually challenging, high-powered careerist, “boss-babe” types. I’m a woman and I actually believe men when they say they just want someone fun, kind, attractive, and DTF. Class and education certainly factor in, but not nearly to the degree it does for women when considering men for the same thing. [/quote]

I believe men when they say that, but I also think actions speak louder than words. I met my husband while he was doing his MBA at a top-tier school and no one he graduated with married a “fun/kind/attractive/DTF” girlfriend unless they were also at a threshold of education and professional accomplishment.  Not always “careerist” but just like with attractiveness, there is a threshold.[/quote]

I’m the PP you responded to. I think maybe, to be more clear, I should say I think there’s a difference between concerns with class, and concerns with a woman’s job.  I think class can be self-selecting, so an UMC man is more likely to pick a UMC woman, and expect a certain amount of education and “breeding” that goes along with that. I still believe he will pick someone within that pool of women according to the aforementioned simple standards. He simply doesn’t care as much about the woman’s resume, in the same way she might care about his. [/quote]

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