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[quote=Anonymous]To answer the original question, no, it is never "O.K." to make major child raising decisions "solo" simply because you and spouse disagree about an issue.  It signifies a communication issue between the parents which needs to be addressed.

A second issue which needs to be addressed, beyond poor communications between the parents, is the internal attitude of a parent who would even contemplate making a unilateral decision like this.  This is assuming the other parent wasn't impaired in some way or absent and the need for a decision was immediate.

When making major decisions for a child, or anyone including yourself, a parent has an obligation to do a lot more homework on the issue before jumping to the conclusion that the other parent is wrong or that there is no room for a legitimate disagreement or even a way to find a compromise of some kind.

This is just simultaneously both too rigid, yet too impulsive, a way to handle these issues

It's obvious from the thread that OP didn't do nearly enough homework on special ed issues before jumping to the conclusion that she was "right" and her husband was wrong.  Once she calmed down, actually took the time to learn something, and actually discussed things with her husband surprise surprise it looks like the disagreement was all in OPs own head.[/quote]

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