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[quote=Anonymous]Theres all kinds of psychological issues here. Basically op you've raised an entitled daughter so she doesn't feel she is obligated to not use the apartment you are paying for in a manner you feel is not responsible. On the other hand you feel giving her the money gives you the right to control who lives in it. You also have bad boundaries with your daughter. If you don't want to pay for her apartment if this guy is freeloading off her, you have to set that boundary and stick to it. But her poor decision making is a direct result of how you raised her--that she doesn't have to worry about possible negative consequences from her bad decisions because she's not financially responsible for them. You probably need family therapy and thats when all the deeper issues about how you are over enmeshed with her will start to come out too. This is not really about her bum boyfriend at all. [/quote]
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