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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Had my first at 30 and second at 37.  My pregnancy at 37 was easier! (Both happened first time trying). Took a couple of months with my 3rd now at 42 (almost 43).  This one has been harder. I have bad hip pain and I’m more tired. BUT I also broke my hip when I was 25, so….[/quote]

Let’s all promote having babies at nearly 43! An even better idea if you already have children! [/quote]

Lets promote not being bitter and being supportive or at least, non-judgmental about other people's family planning decisions. I had a child in my early 30s and one at 42. I am very healthy and financially well off and love my husband and my kids. Would I tell someone to do it if they didn't have my situation, could not hire a ton of help, didn't have super involved friends and family, a great house, happiness, etc.? No, but those are the factors that I weighed. Luckily, I don't want or need your validation. Maybe keep your snarky thoughts to yourself?[/quote]

You need the validation. [/quote]
Sure, that’s it. It’s not at all that you’re a jerk. [/quot

I give you props for your persistence in getting that validation. [/quote]

What are you on about? How would getting insulted by you be validating? How would posting on an anonymous forum be validating? You don't make any sense, and you just sound like a big old negative Nancy. Go spread some more of that cheer around. I am actually postpartum - are you? Or just trolling around on here looking for some pregnant or recent moms to attack? Sounds healthy. Good thing you had your kids young so you could put all your time to constructive use.

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Why’ are you postpartum posting on here rather than doing something “constructive?”  Searching for that validation for having a baby at quite an advanced age? Seemingly bothers you having a baby that old and upsets if all aren’t impressed with it. [/quote]

I am sitting around breastfeeding, which is something some people do postpartum, and commenting on having a baby after 35, which is something I have actually done. You are on here trolling and attacking older mothers. Your post makes no sense given that it is riddled with typos and nonsense, but I get that you think you're being clever. You're not. You sound dim. So I am guessing having those kids super young didn't impact your "career".[/quote]

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