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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did he say “you are a b” or “you’re being a b”?[/quote] My H called me this name, exactly once, then tried to minimize it in exactly this way (“I didn’t call you a B, I said you were acting like one”). I explained that that word had no place in a respectful dialogue between us, no matter how heated it got. Internally I noted what he was trying to do; prime me to tolerate abusive language. And I promised myself that if it happened again we were done. It never has. It’s sad how men will twist themselves in a pretzel to try this stuff. Know that you’ll eventually find a woman who will tolerate name-calling. Many of us will not. I would absolutely leave my marriage if I were called names. It’s a bright line.[/quote]
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