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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Were you being a b?[/quote]

I was being annoying. I wanted to take this certification class for work that would cost 4k. He thought it was too much and a waste of money and to explore cheaper options. I felt hurt that he would just put down what I have wanted for a while and call it a 
&quot;waste.&quot;

I raised my voice and said it is not a waste to me as it would give me a certification and it hurts me that he can't be supportive. [/quote]

See if your employer will cover part of the cost.

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This would be all well + good however this would not solve the huge issue of disrespect that is going on in this marriage.

OP, you have no reason to be embarrassed.
I absolutely hate being referred to by that word & if someone had called me that word previously then my resentment would be through the roof.

It appears that you are accepting all the blame here which is something that abuse victims tend to do.
Your husband needs to apologize for calling you that.
Period.
Then promise you not to ever use it again.

If he continues &gt; I suggest marriage counseling or if he refuses then divorce.

I honestly could not live w/someone on a daily basis who would use such a cruel moniker toward me every time he wasn’t happy w/me! 😡
Good luck![/quote]

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