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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No thank goodness. Middle aged men seeking out pictures of hot young women like that on a regular basis is so tasteless. (I feel totally differently about DH looking at peon once in a while though. In my mind that’s different and no I don’t know why). [/quote]

Assuming here that "peon" is meant to be porn? I also dont' know why you'd find that OK but looking at still photos of women is somehow more...offensive?...to you. In porn, people are performing sex acts, many of which are unrealistic and create unrealistic expectations in the viewer, but that's less a problem for you than a picture of one woman in, say, a bikini, or topless--? Not being mean, PP, but it is a strange disconnect, to me. [/quote]

Yea that was a typo. I don’t find looking at thirst traps offensive! They’re putting themselves out there sexually, nothing disrespectful about looking. It’s the idea of a grown man following lots of thirst trap accounts to be pathetic. Like they go on social media and see a friend’s new deck, a post about crypto, a 20-year old in a bikini that turns them on, somebody’s lunch, then a photo of a friend’s baby? Weird. And yeah the ethics of porn is a whole thing but suffice it to say that I don’t think it’s always unethical, and it doesn’t always create unrealistic expectations, and in terms of unrealistic *beauty* standards I think Instagram is way worse than porn. [/quote]

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