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OP, I’m a SAHM. I didn’t contribute any money towards my house. My husband paid for everything—and will continue to pay for everything. Both our names are on the deed of our house.

Your views are generally incompatible with marriage.

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You must have bought that house together after marriage? OP owned his house before getting married. There is a difference. [/qu ote]

NP here.

Nope. My husband paid off the house before we met. And he agreed that it belonged to both of us. We spent marital assets on finishing the basement, renovating the kitchen and all 4 bathrooms, paying taxes on it etc. And i was the one who found the contractors and supervised the work. If the house were his only, I wouldn't be comfortable with all of that.

OP needs to rent the house out and create a business account for maintenance and repairs of the house. He cannot expect his wife to be a part of maintenence,  renovation, repairs, or  even paying taxes for a house that will never be hers.

However I think there are bigger problems here. I am not leaving my husband for stuff like that. I would have found a place to rent, moved out and asked him to follow me to our new place and put his house on the market for rent or sale. And my husband would have done so if he did not intend to add me to the title.

There will always be disagreements in a marriage. If you like each other, you find compromises. To leave because you would not be added on a house that has almost been paid off shows that you were either not into the marriage from the start or you lack problem solving skills. Either way, good riddance! OP get yourself together, seek therapy to know your worth and pick a better spouse next time.

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