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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP you should see a therapist and psychiatrist. You sound very angry.[/quote]

Extra points for misogynistic gaslighting.  :oops: [/quote]

I’m trying to imagine a dad complaining about walking through the door at 9 pm, having avoided all childcare duty as the baby is now asleep, and complaining that his wife, who works full time, didn’t finish all the dishes in addition to everything else she did that evening.[/quote]

His childcare duties involve 2-2.5 hours per day total.

And presumably you had a child because you think it’s fun. [/quote]

Op: yes we used to have a nanny 8-6 and now daycare 730-6 pm. [/quote]

Yes, that’s what a lot of dual working spouses handle.  They swap up daycare pickup, take turns bathing, feeding, playing, soothing, rocking and reading to the baby.

Your husband is doing 100 percent of all that, and you are walking through the door at 9 pm complaining he didn’t do enough.

Sorry, I don’t see a dad getting much sympathy if he were posting and not you.[/quote]

Op: and I do everything else while he relaxes in the evening or during the weekend. [/quote]

OP if he cooks he says he cannot do childcare because it’s too intense. I can watch the child and cook at the same time. [/quote]

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