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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you avoid taking her to target because she'll want a toy every time? Do you avoid taking her to the grocery store because she'll demand ice cream? Do you alway give in to her requests or do you say no? While I don't think you should attach rewards to reading, I also think that a 3.5 year old should be able to understand "not today" if you want to look at the dolls. You could have her take photos of the ones she likes for "next time we go" And if you never say no...it's a good time to start [/quote] +1 Go and say you are just looking. 3.5 olds are old enough to understand. [/quote] Absolutely not. It’s mean AF. She begs to go to the toy isle at the grocery store? Sure let her know she can just look. Absolutely. And it’s a good lesson since it’s not what you intended to go there for. Just groceries or toilet paper or whatever. But you get in the car and drive the child to a TOY STORE then you better go intending to get her a dang toy. Jeez. Y’all are mean. [/quote] Wait, your kid got a toy every time they went to a toy store? Even if they were going to buy their cousin a Christmas present? Or a friend a birthday present? Lucky kid I guess. Mine must be ready for therapy for the abuse I put them through.[/quote] That’s the only reason I’d ever bother taking them to an actual toy store, so yes. I order gifts on Amazon or if I need to go with them we will grab something at Walmart, Target etc. [/quote]
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