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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP. Really common, and much more horrible than people who haven't been through it can imagine.

I drew the line at my mother putting other people at risk of losing their lives, given that they hadn't agreed to this. Fir me, that's when you are in an apartment building or other connected space, and you are habitually causing fire risks by leaving the burners on, or smoking cigarettes at the same time you are on supplemental oxygen and falling asleep with the tank just a foot or two away.

I loved her. I tried to be there and not change her, since she wasn't going to change. But I got rid of the cigarettes and kept getting rid of them, and I had the gas shut off to the apartment. It was the best I could do.

My big shame is that her death brought this intense waive of relief -- whatever I had done wrong or decided poorly, there were now no mistakes left to make. It was over. And I wasn't glad she was dead, but I was so incredibly glad that I couldn't get more wrong anymore.[/quote]

Bless you PP. People do NOT understand how hard this is unless they have been through it.[/quote]

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