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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Daycare is the cost of working split between both parents. It’s not a cost that’s only charged to women. Ugh!![/quote] Well, when your family is completely stressed out because of having 2 working parents and young kids in daycare, and you have very little weekday time with your kids, it starts to feel 'not worth it' for the difference in net HHI. [/quote] Some families are less stressed when both work. You really shouldn't extrapolate your, and your spouse's, inability to manage a workload and household to other families.[/quote] You are both being mean. I AM stressed out by two parents working. I dont think that means i can't manage a workload and household. I also don't think it's a purely financial decision. If you have enough money to choose whether to work or stay home, then you shouldn't just consider dollars, you should consider what you want most out of some of the prime working and parenting years of your life. Maximizing your bank account shouldn't be the only or even the top value in deciding how to *spend your actual life*. Some benefits are not quantitative, and that's true of both work and parenting.[/quote]
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