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[quote=Anonymous]I was foolish to marry someone with whom I am not sexual compatible. We are a good child rearing unit, partners etc but I sometimes wonder if we will be empty nesters having affairs. I would be ok with that, possibly. On the other hand sex has dwindled in importance for me. Not sure because I am older or in response to our lackluster situation. Fwiw I’m female and historically far more adventurous than dh (more experienced but also more open and comfort with various expressions of desire) but years of same ol, not being comfortable with sexuality in general has kind of dulled it for me. He just never wants to talk, to flirt, to role play, to experiment, to keep sex as a constant burning flame. It’s more like twice a month lights out exactly the same every time.[/quote]
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