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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Obviously [b]abuse, drugs, criminal history[/b] are clear signs but what other issues do you consider a red flag in an adult child’s SO, worthy enough to voice your concern? [/quote]

Anti-social tendencies
Mental illness and disorders (Bipolar, NPD, DPD)
Parents Divorced
Financial habits - Overspending, in debt, student debt, no savings , does not contribute the maximum to meet employer match
Lack of adulting skills
Low EQ, low self-esteem, unpleasant personality
Poor physical health or medical history
Unattractive
Does not treat my adult child well.
Baggage and previous relationships 
Education Level
No future plans

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LOL! It’s funny.  This mythical perfect mate who is a healthy, wealthy, beautiful, sexy, modest, intelligent, high achieving, confident, pleasant mannered, financially disciplined, virgin from a wealthy, educated, stable family … probably doesn’t even exists. [/quote]

What you wrote has nothing to do with the list provided.

The list provided represents red flags or values or habits.

It’s about who you can build a real future with. Not a chaotic downward spiral with.[/quote]

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