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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband does easily 50% and was a Navy pilot, reserves and now retired.  That being said our neighbors just got divorced and dad is suddenly super involved dad…. Because he has to be.

OP tell him how you feel. It’s better he moves on to someone that can support him and you find someone that can always be around.   [/quote]

Suddenly super involved?  What was his level of involvement before the separation or divorce? [/quote]

This is extremely common when divorce happens because men fear that they will lose their kids and then they suddenly are capable of everything and this is very common; divorce attorneys say this always happens and it happened, to me, too. This is extremely common when divorce happens because men fear that they will lose their kids and then they suddenly are capable of everything. The man starting to do something upon divorce has happened to every divorced woman I know. Guy did nothing while married ( like literally nothing) and then as soon as they’re divorced, they have to start doing something and then miraculously, they start doing it. And as my ex says: “why would I do anything when you were doing it all the time. I’m not gonna do anything until I absolutely have to—‘necessity is the mother and if invention’.” Men are lazy and selfish and will only do the things that they absolutely have to do. Hence, sudden involvement upon divorce. [/quote]

That’s great news. I was worried my aspie do nothing spouse would continue to be a pig and ignore/ neglect the kids but maybe he’d stop being a screen and work addict and actually take care and raise them during his custody time!

That would be better than the 30 minutes a week they currently get from him.

I sincerely hope he gets it together solo, that will be so much better for the kids, for everyone.

- relieved [/quote]

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