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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You folks are very strange about death. In our large, Italian, Catholic family, weddings and wakes are the times we mostly get together, and to be honest the middle days of the wakes are fun.  You see people you haven’t seen in ages, tell stories, catch up, and talk about planning that cousins club reunion that never really happens. As long as you’re not staging a photo in front of the casket or gravesite, it’s not a big deal. Twenty years from now, you're going to be happy to have large group pictures as you remember those who have gone and you start talking with your children and grandchildren about their family history and they want to know about them.

It’s perfectly fine to stick this picture in a closet for now if it’s hard for you. But it’s not a horrible offense.[/quote]

I cannot believe this bears explaining, but: Weddings and funerals aren't the same at all. "Funerals are fun" has got to be a new one here. Maybe they're sort of a nice chance to reconnect if you're not close to the person. I'm willing to bet the person who lost a mom, dad, sibling, child, husband or wife isn't having tons of fun. Have you ever mourned someone close to you? If so, did you spend the time planning a "cousin club" (?) reunion.

There are lots of places to stage and then gift large family photos. A funeral just ain't one of 'em.[/quote]

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