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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, have you considered adoption? I know someone who adopted a baby from someone who didn't want a third child or an abortion.[/quote]

Omg No Way… that would be devastating to OP and her family… the fact she didn’t have an abortion means she isn’t  going to give her third child up for adoption . OP, you may have to adjust your ‘plan’ or the vision you had for your life as a family but it will all turn out right in the end and you won’t be able to imagine life without three 
. When I found out baby no two was actually baby no two and three, I actually had to go through all the stages of grief.  I did not want three kids, I always envisioned two. I was depressed for the first part of my pregnancy because I was grieving the loss of how I had envisioned our life (two kids, regular size car, nice family vacations, paying full college tuition etc etc.). But as the pregnancy progressed my mindset shifted and I decided I wasn’t going to focus on what I was losing but how much we’d be gaining.  Now we are a family of five and life is normal and adjusted and I literally can not imagine not having one of our babies. [/quote]

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