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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First of all, this is an anonymous forum.  If you can’t be honest here, where can you be?  Just as you posit there are many “unhealthy betrayed wives,” be cognizant that you’re only aware of this because of the many threads written about infidelity, whether real, imagined, or rhetorical.  Obviously it’s a part of life.

I divorced someone due PARTIALLY for cheating, but I can actually - gasp - imagine staying with an unfaithful spouse if things were otherwise good.  I do not think the narratives are so black and white as some suggest. But I do offer stories about my experience because posters who’ve been cheated on/think they’ve been cheated on may feel isolated, or as though there’s no one in their actual life they can talk to.[/quote]

OP here. For the last time, [b]I never said that people hear should not talk about their pain and experiences with betrayal.[/b] My post was about women who go on attack in damn near every post about affairs and attack cheaters and APs. My thoughts were that people who do that are constantly projecting their own feelings about being betrayed and showing just how much they haven't healed their own hurt. I asked in my original post if they had sought therapy to heal or if they were using this site to attack people as their healing.

My goodness, does anyone read anything here?!>![/quote]

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