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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There's a ton here. Ranting and raving about how awful cheaters are on every thread, name calling, immature snarkiness. My ex-husband had an affair, we separated, we reconciled, he did it again, we divorced. It was painful, it was ugly, but craps happens. Heal and get over it, and move on with your life. Giving non-useful advice isn't going to heal you. And all the AP/cheating husband name calling in the world isn't going stop them.

Do betrayed spouses get therapy, or is bleeding all over DCUM therapy for you?

Just wondering.[/quote]

I can tell this thread is a bash women thread so we should ignore[/quote]

[b]Exactly. OP is not a "healed wife"[/b][/quote]

OP here. You are correct, I'm a healed EX-wife. The point is to make a choice, get some healing and move on. [/quote]

You aren't that either.  People can  post about their cheating spouses  how many times they want in whatever way you want. If you don't like it skip the thread.[/quote]

Never said they couldn't. In fact, what I originally said was, "Ranting and raving about how awful cheaters are on every thread, name calling, immature snarkiness."

I definitely AM that.

It's just difficult for a lot of you to believe that a woman can be betrayed, divorce and then move on and have a healthy state-of-mind which is so freakin odd to me. It's ok if you or anyone you know that has dealt with a marital affair isn't there yet. From the comments I've read, I'm assuming healing and moving forward doesn't happen for everyone, but that is by choice. It is a choice to stay stuck on that painful affair and be bitter about it. I [b]choose[/b] not to live that way. I have a life of my own to live and a child to raise. My ex-husband moved on to live a life of his own so what should a woman in this situation do?? Stop living?!?! Be angry all the time?? Jump on every thread and every time a woman says she's an OP or a man says he cheated in his marriage I just go full on attack?? Every single one of us has choices in life. Some stranger on an anonymous board calling you names is NOT going to change your mind about what you feel is right.

I'm going to choose happiness in my life every time and name calling strangers on an anon forum would never heal any of the hurt I endured.

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I think it's not your place to tell other women what they can and can not post about, especially with a condescending and misogynistic attitude and presentation.

[b][b]You are in no way healed[/b], but you are incredibly self-righteous.[/b]

IF you don't like a thread skip it.

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My guess is you're one of the ones posting these bitter comments all of the time. Let it go, boo. There's joy on the other side if you let it happen.[/quote]

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