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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m the PP. Regardless of what your BIL said, you and your DH need to stay out of it. [/quote] +1 Your BIL's relationship with his MIL is not your business. He and his wife can work that out themselves. The fact that your husband feels the need to ALSO punish BIL indicates some troublesome family dynamics. Everyone's rushing to protect the bully because one of her victims finally snapped (which is the point, isn't it? She needles and needles and needles, and then he loses his temper and now she's the victim and he's the bad guy). The easiest way to handle this would have been to say, "Hey, BIL, I know MIL is a pain and she was being really rude to you. I honestly don't blame you for snapping. But could you just not say that particular word in front of the kids?" And then let it go. [/quote]
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