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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We all want different things in life. describe your spouse. Comment if you’d be “in” or “out” for the other spouses described here.

Mine:
Works hard, but can’t delegate, isn’t a high earner (&lt;100k at 50)
Poor boundaries 
Enjoys the good things in life (music, art, culture) - good taste
Great sense of humor, dedicated friend - is there when it counts. Makes time for those who count. 
Affectionate, loves to give and receive attention 
(High sex drive. great at oral sex)
But needs a lot of attention 
Moody and erratic
Pedantic, micromanaging, anxious about household cleaning - [b]gets angry if you don’t do things the “right way”[/b]
Time blindness - always late, no ability to long term plan
[b]Mean when angry - speaks in cutting tone, will insult you personally[/b] 
Can’t save money. Living paycheck to paycheck. Finances all on you.[/quote]

I was in until I reached these lines. Out. Unless it only happens once every 10 years, can’t live with meanness. [/quote]

Does it make a difference if there is always a genuine apology and resolution after each argument? Conflicts don’t drag on. No in your face screaming like other poster[/quote]

Maybe it's not a total dealbreaker like the screaming in your face, but I'd be concerned if that behavior didn't improve over time.  If he is genuinely apologizing then he must be aware that his behavior is wrong - so why does he keep doing it?  Ultimately I wouldn't want to spend my life with someone who is mean or insulting when angry. [/quote]

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